Mommy vs. Jenhong

This is going to be a short post... (updated today ~apr15, found better comparison photo =P)

So... how much % do you think mommy and Jenhong is alike?!



Mommy did not manage to get daddy's photo yet, will update daddy's photo here later...

go, gO, GO … another step forward, he just turned 7 mths!


It has been quite busy week for mommy since last week, as mommy is attending workshop, training classes and etc. It is good to be busy isn’t it? Life is more meaningful that way and we learn new things day after day too…

While mommy busy learning new things at work, Jenhong is learning new things at home too HAHA. We started him on some solids now, not so much on real porridge yet, but more on blended porridge. Since Dr. Hwang ever said that he is a sensitive baby, so it is advice not to start his solid too soon. As of now, we only introduce him to a few types of food, which is baby rice, potatoes and carrot. During weekends, baby Jenhong will be on blended porridge, where I add both potatoes and carrot while cooking the porridge, and before we feed him, we will blend it to make sure that he eats the carrots and potatoes too for better food quality rather than just taking the porridge alone, which nutritious are not that sufficient.

On weekdays, since both daddy and mommy is busy at work, sometimes we do cook porridge for him to bring to babysitter on the next day, but sometimes we don’t. On those days, Jenhong will take the instant baby rice (nestle products). We mix some flavor for him, such that it won’t be too boring on same taste everyday. Jenhong has skipped his milk for lunch and replaced with solid now, which is a good start for us! Go go… I knew he can skip most of the milk once we introduce more solid types for him after 8 mths… We will try to introduce some apple to him soon… hahaha, so far, only vege and fruits allowed, as these are types of food that has lower risk to cause food allergy.

He has been quite a happy baby all time since he was borned. If you look at his photos, video clips, he smiles/laugh most of the time. Sometimes, something very simple can cheer his day up too, just like this:



We will bring Jenhong back for injection probably another 2 weeks time, so there won’t be much update on his growth details until then…

After weeks of practice, now he can easily turn as he wish to. He has been quite an active baby too, a lot of time, he like to hold his leg up high and bang down. He’s quite powerful and seem like want to spoil his own cot. He sleeps with a lot of pattern too nowadays, turn here turn there… usually in the middle of the night, we will have to wake up and fix his position for once as he will cry asking for help. He also like to bang things with his hands now, he love to bang my laptop especially.

Alright, here’s another short clip to enjoy… if I can take better clip, I’ll replace this, but this is how he turn for now, in fact, he can do it quite easily.

谢谢你愿意牵着我的手一起走

周惠有一首歌,“ 约定”。
一首我个人认为拥有不错的曲调、歌词的一首歌。

远处的钟声回荡在雨里
我们在屋檐低下牵手听
幻想教堂里的那场婚礼
是为祝福我俩而举行

一路从泥泞走到了美景
习惯在彼此眼中找勇气
累到无力总会想吻你
才能忘了情路艰辛

你我约定难过的往事不许提
也答应永远都不让对方担心
要做快乐的自己, 照顾自己
就算某天一个人孤寂

你我约定一争吵很快要喊停
也说好没有秘密彼此很透明
我会好好地爱你, 傻傻爱你
不去计较公平不公平


“一路从泥泞走到了美景,习惯在彼此眼中找勇气”,自我们携手踏出第一步开始,从甜蜜的第一年,踱进风风雨雨的第二年,就在精疲力尽的时候,躲进了感情低潮的第三年,也是大学的最后一年,更是充满无奈的一年。一来,苦了四年终于要毕业了,心底有说不出的喜悦;二来,大学生涯即将结束,对身边的事物,对亲近的朋友,又一份说不上来的忧愁感伤。

走完了大学的生活,接着就是在社会谋生,证明自己的时候。同时,我也面对了生命中一个辗转的决定。终于,我选择了放弃一直以来热诚于华乐的生活,决定有生之年追随我爱的人。开始了新生活的我,同时也开始了我的工作生涯。离开家乡越来越远,我们开始更贴切的互相依靠与鼓励,不知不觉就步入了感情的另一个阶段。我开始学习凡事忍让,开始学习凡事都要信任对方,也开始尝试改变自己牵就彼此,渐渐地稳定了这份感情。五年来的感情路,走来得不易。彼此互相的鼓励,忍让,暖暖地呵护了这段感情,在彼此的心底,无形间刻上了永恒。

“累到无力总会想吻你,才能忘了情路艰辛”,是不是每个恋爱中的人都会如此呢?对我而言,很多时候,当我心情很激动、低落的时候,一个拥抱,一个轻吻都足以让我安抚下来,忘了情路上的坎坷,忘了对你发脾气,激动的原因。有时候,爱情的力量是我无法否认的。或许,就只因为我是个感性的人,因而对人与人之间的好感与接触,拥有较深一层的感动。

我深深地感受到你对我的好,也深深地了解到我没有任何理由能放弃你。你的一举一动,牵着我的每一根思绪。爱着你的爱,梦着你的梦;快乐着你的快乐,悲伤着你的悲伤;人生没有所谓的完美,生命总有平息与波浪的时刻。没有风雨躲得过,没有坎坷不必走,所以我决定安心地牵你的手,不去想该不该回头。

谢谢你愿意牵着我的手一起走!